"I understood
ebay's system before I decided to participate.", says 51studebaker.
If only
ebay would correctly and fairly follow their own rules...
If only
ebay wouldn't move their goalposts during the game...
If only
ebay's support personnel would have a clue about what they are doing...
51studebaker's argument is akin to saying "Being a citizen of this or that country, you must agree with all its laws." No, you have to obey the law but you don't have to agree with all laws, you don't have to like all of them, and you have a right to argue against them in the press and in court. There are stupid, wrong, even criminal, anti-constitutional laws. Lawmakers are human. Many of them are subhuman, I would say.
The same goes for rules of any larger-than-life corporation like
ebay or
Amazon. With age, these overgrown, shareholder-oriented organizations become bureaucracies, inefficient, incompetent, self-indulgent, condescending toward their clientele, and outrageously dishonest.
Once upon a time I won an
ebay case against a UK customer who requested rfund for non-delivery, received a refund, and then received the merchandise according to the tracking records (the letter was held ny the UK customs, without explanation, for 2 months).
ebay people confirmed that I should get that payment back. And what they did? They refunded my money to the complaining custommer again, the second time! It took several hours of heated phone conversations, and a couple of weeks of paperwork exchange between
ebay and PayPal for me to get my money back, and even then that UK customer continued to stink to the high heaven, and I had to ban him to get rid of this annoyance.
When you "decide to paricipate" in a game, you expect that all players would follow the rules. But they don't. That's why real life and chess tournaments are very different things. It's a jungle out there.