My lost item tale is nearly done.
After I contacted
ebay I decided to contact the buyer. I explained I wasn't ignoring the problem but
ebay had advised me to let the case run it's course. I did think he was a little unreasonable filing a lost item claim when Election day was just around the corner, but I decided to take the high road. He responded congenially and we both waited. There was no tracking updates from Oct 26th to Nov. 6th and then it arrived in Augusta but still not in South Carolina.
ebay closed the case and issued a refund on the 7th and 12 hours later the item was delivered.
The buyer contacted me and asked if it was OK if he sent me a check for the item and I concurred. I checked and
ebay had given me a defect as expected. I called them and referred them to the earlier phone call and they immediately removed the defect. Case closed!!
One important piece of advice if I may. I often call
ebay when I see a potential problem coming and tell them I want to explain and get it on the record. This has helped me many many times. Always ask the rep to put your conversation in the record if only to save time explaining everything twice when you call back.