Lately folks, it seems like I've returned more
ebay purchases than I've kept. Bottom line, is that I know the values of what I'm looking for, and I'm always looking for a bargain. Sometimes the bargain isn't a "bargain".
I've had a few dealers refund my payment, and tell me to keep the stamp. I've always thanked them, then donated the stamp to our local stamp club monthly auction. I've only had one or two balk or complain when I want to return the stamp. Usually they've written back with language that makes them sound like they're embarrassed, or just really sorry.
I've also had a few that I kept anyway, because it was such a great deal. A few that I've wrote the seller and told them I'd like to keep it, and negotiated a partial refund to make the stamp worth keeping.
So, let the buyer beware. And don't hesitate to send the stamp back if it's not as advertised. Or also know that you might be able to work with the seller if you'd like to keep it, but don't think it's worth what you paid.
Take care, Ray