With Lighter fluid I use a small finger bowl as the Lighter fluid evaporates, but there are small black trays that are called "Watermark trays" and the color Black helps bring out the Watermark so I would suggest checking a Stamp supply store or
ebay for one. I think they run around $5-$10. With Stamp Tongs I dip the Stamp in the lighter fluid and then lay it on a black stock card rear to view. The amount of fluid needed is just enough to submerse the Stamp completely with a quick dunk.