I finally did go to one of the local stamp club meetings and joined! Today was a 'phlea market' where members bought and sold stuff, looked through circuit (bourse) books. Most were in the 50+ age range but seemed like fun!

For $15 bucks a year, I get access to the stamp library, all the auctions, talks/shows etc. It is hosted at the Spellman museum and every 6 months or so, the curator there gets something cool out of the vault and talks about it.
Happy stamping I suppose!

Ram.