I have sit on this thing for nearing 10 years. I have
even added to it. I still know the bottom line is that
I should be liquidating it, but I have no idea of how
to even start.

I don't have enough days left in life to sell it off
stamp by stamp. Probably the only way I'd get what
the collection is worth. I have talked to a few people
about buying the entire collection, and I always get
excited about it when they are eager to deal with me
at first, but before it's over, they have all either
tried to seal the deal with embarrassing low balls, or
they go from eager to buy the whole collection, to just
wanting to go through it and pick out what they want.

I need to figure out how to find honest buyers...
The problem is that Dad left this in my lap after spending
many, many thousands on it, while knowing that I was not
a stamp collector. I don't want to drag this out and leave
my surviving family in an even worse position... at least
I am a coin collector, and tried to understand stamps...
My remaining family doesn't even have these attributes,
and I can even see the possibility of the collection being
thrown away if something happens to me! Literally trashed,
after speaking with family and trying to see how they
would move forward in that situation. They don't understand
AT ALL. You see, it's not just stamps. Between the things
my father collected, things I collect, and a huge inventory
left over from our now defunct business, my family would
be totally overwhelmed. If it was JUST stamps, they'd have
a chance. However, I'm talking about a warehouse of construction
tools and equipment, that they would have to deal with,
just for starters.

Ideas?