Thanks everyone for your input,
I didn't expect to spark such a discussion

It was in the main, just about myself,
I didn't really know how to approach the situation
or if indeed it really meant anything.
I was going on the "if it doesn't feel right, then
it probably isn't right"
I am sorted

I empathise with vendors of small lots, I have been there
I sold an item here once very low cost, and it ended up
costing me money to sell it.
No one wants that.
I often paypal all my lots up to the nearest dollar
to assist the vendor, but now I have a figure of 3%
and I can work with that.
We do indeed get great bargains here, I'll continue
to support the auctions, I won't pay the gift option
but will adjust the paypal payment.
Thanks everyone.