It depends what you are buying and selling. When you say stamps, are they US or Foreign/ Mint or used? Classic or Modern? The better the information that you can provide will yield the best response. I collect covers, and I buy most of them on
ebay. I know
ebay gets a lot of criticism, but where else can you find millions of lots for sale every day? If I were collecting mint 19th century stamps I would look for a dealer that I trust that offered refunds if they do not pass the certification process. I just bought three box lots of covers at a show last week, probably 5000+ covers. A show seems to be the only place I can get deals like that. Stamp clubs are great for lower priced stuff. Most clubs have bourses or a small auction.
I think
ebay is the easiest place to sell and your stuff will be seen by the most people, but again it depends on what you are selling. For example, I belong to the Minnesota Postal History Society. When I have good Minnesota covers to sell that is my best venue. If I have box lots to sell I have found a local dealer that will sell them on consignment. He of course gets a fee which varies depending on price and whether I want money of credit.
I have tried Stamps2Go and Stamporama for covers and they don't have much at all. I don't know how they are for stamps. Bidstart has a better selection than those two. I have tried selling on Bidstart. The fees are much lower than
ebay. Most of my lots do not sell on Bidstart and I end up relisting them on
ebay. I have found some great deals from very good sellers on Bidstart, but for some reason most of the lots I am interested in there still seem to be priced higher than on
ebay Don't throw all your eggs in one basket. Try a few things and see what works for you. When you do have questions on something specific, this is a great place to ask. There are a lot a very knowledgeable collectors here that freely share their information.