Here is an example of a match stamp that is Ex silk. Note the silk fibers are of a lighter color blue and are very scarce on face and back. There are other colors of Ex silk, such as red, but are way less common then the blue. Most fibers are not immediately recognizable such as the darker blue fibers that are generous on face and back of your stamp.

Fiber just under top middle perf, and lower circled in pencil.

Fiber above comma after date.
There are a few others that are not visible in these scans, as they are embedded in the paper.
The Ex Silk paper was only in play for a short time, roughly Aug 1870 to early 1871 when regular silk paper replaced it. The paper thickness and texture all play a part in this too. It has taken many years to become proficient at identifying these. There are often stray pieces of colored string or other materials that appear to be silk but are not. The regular silk stamps had the fibers mixed in with the paper pulp, ex silk was hand strewn into the wet paper pulp as I understand it. There may only be one fiber in a single stamp.
Hope this helps answer your question.