blazenstar,
I respectfully disagree with several of statements in your reply to me.
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That is not self inflicted that is a statement of deflection of their own personalities.
If this were true, this forum would not be one of the most popular. Hundreds of others have sought and received help without the drama that your threads seem to generate.
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Other locations, do not act in this fashion. They do not intentionally insult others
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This is clearly not accurate. There are several other stamp forums with horrid reputations for negativity and flame-fests. This forum is as friendly as any out there. This is due to the fantastic job the moderators do here.
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Why in the world are individuals projecting this mannerism?
I agree that you have not insulted anyone else, I agree that some responses to you have shown frustration. But stating that you are a CEO or have royal bloodlines is not projecting mannerisms? Those types of statements will never generate anything helpful when posted on an online anonymous forum.
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I have had rarities from my personal collection that were sold in auction in past. I took the time to learn about those stamps in detail including specialists viewed them face to face years ago. I have paid specialists in past to evaluate them. So not all stamps are rarities,nor do I assume that all must be in my possession
I would never make assumptions about what you did previously. But considering the thread topics you have started and the questions you have asked, your experience does not seem extensive. Nothing wrong with that but some of your questions do not seem to match up with these kinds of statements. And you have also been replying with researched answers in other's threads. These things were why some wondered out loud if all of this was legitimate. Please note, I mean no offense here and am only trying to help this all work out.
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Honestly, if I have met some of the negative posters and they were qualified examiners in person, I would never return to their offices. They would have lost my business immediately.
This forum is not commercial or a business for the posters. You are asking for favors, no one is getting paid for helping you, everyone is volunteering and donating their time for free.
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No one wants that negative manner of communication in a public forum that can be viewed by the world with writings.
I agree with you 100% but this is why I am imploring you to reconsider the way you post. And yes, some of the rest of us also need to lighten up a bit too. I think some movement from both sides will go a long way to resolve the negativity here.
Have you considered holding off on posting responses quickly? I ask because you often double and triple post, this may be a sign that you are not gathering your thoughts together and end up having to append your posts. I often reply on my own computer, save the file, and wait a few hours before actually posting. More times than not I find that my end up making significant edits to my first thoughts.
Many, many others have sought the exact some type of help and answers to their questions without the drama. Occasionally some threads do get filled with drama but the reasons are usually quite easy to see. But in general this forum is as friendly and helpful as any you will ever run across. We all, those asking for input as well as those who give input, should work towards getting along. If you were to follow what I have outlined in the last few posts, I think that everything will work out. If you stay the current course, I do not think that things will work out as well.
Don